How to get her YES ?
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Steps
1
Don't come on too strong early. Let the relationship develop at its own pace. Coming on too strong early will almost certainly creep her out. Gradually get stronger feelings for her as you go on with the relationship together.
2
Be brave. Most girls like people with confidence, not an ego. Just walk up to her and start a simple conversation. She'll get the hint that you are interested in her.
3
Do not ever treat her as she were merely an item. No one likes to feel used and unloved.
4
Prove that you really like her. Show that you're not simply crushing or lusting for her. Ask her about herself, talk to her. Don't just move in for the kiss. Listen to her and look her in the eye.
5
Memorize her eye color. Do this by looking at them as much as you can when you're talking with her. It wouldn't be a bad idea to do this for every woman you meet.
6
Care for her. Ask her about her day. It's a simple way to show her that you are interested in what she does, and that you do care. When she starts to talk, you must give her your full attention. Look her in the eye. And most importantly, don't interrupt. Ask her questions about it because it will show her that you are listening. Offer to help her.
7
Make sure to be good friends with her friends. If her friends like you, you'll have a better chance of winning her over. After all, girls often turn to their friends for advice and for a second opinion. So it's best if her friends have a high opinion of you.
8
Make her feel like the most beautiful thing in the world. You can actually directly say that. Girls love to be complimented and to know that they are beautiful, but don't overdo it, particularly in a new friendship. Just saying something like, "You look really nice today" will make her happy. As long as you're sincere and mean it. If you are not, they will not trust your opinion on other things.
9
Make sure she feels safe with you. Most girls want to have someone they can trust and turn to when something goes wrong. And even when she is having a good day, let her know you're interested in how she's doing. If you know that she has plans after work or school, ask her how it went. If you let on that you like her, she'll eventually pick up on the hints. You don't even have to come out and say it. She'll probably pick up on it already.
10
Feel good and bad for her. If she had gotten a perfect score on her math test, be cheerful about it! If she was having a bad day, let her know that you feel her pain and that you want her to feel better. Attempt to make her feel better, if you can.
11
If you can make a girl laugh, you'll get further with her. But don't take advantage of this. Let her be your best friend first, then ease into things. A girl needs to know that she can trust you, and that you're not going to break her heart because you really do care about her. Girls love to laugh and will laugh at anything you say, even if its not funny.
12
Let her wear your jacket if she's cold. It makes an even bigger impression if you take it off of your back and give it to her to wear, but make sure it's clean and smells decent. In doing this, you show a girl that you care about her. She will feel safe and cared.
13
Have good hygiene. Women take pride in hygiene and if a man has good hygiene, it works really well on her. The opposite, bad hygiene, is usually an immediate deal-breaker. Believe it or not, fresh, clean-smelling hair is a really good thing. And, a fresh-smelling body is a must-have. A sweaty, smelly body means you're out.
14
Don't play games. It's a waste of time and gets a relationship headed in the wrong direction. If you try to start a relationship on something false (like you say you've had a multi-year relationship yet you've never even had a girlfriend), that is most likely where you will end up. Cute little flirting or teasing is okay, but never pretend to be someone you're not. If you think the girl is only in the relationship for one thing, and you're in it for another, don't just play along to keep her with you. Tell her what you're looking for and try and make her see what really counts.
15
Be sincere. Compliments, flirting, teasing, carefulness -- none of it matters unless you truly do care.
16
Love her for her quirks. Everyone has something they don't like about the person they love, but if you have too many big things on that list, you need the boot. You need to love her for the things that make her special, for her uniqueness. Tell her so. For example, "I love your freckles." A simple thing like that that you know she may be insecure about can really mean a lot to a girl.
17
If you are thinking something, tell her. If you can't decipher her signals or see where she is going with what she's doing/saying, tell her that. It's best just to get it out there, and see what she says. If you're unsure of what is going on, or how she's treating you, tell her that. If you get it out there right away, the problem can be fixed and the relationship can stay healthy. But don't shoot your mouth off. In these situations, you need to think twice and speak once.
18
Love who she is, inside and out. And show it. This is the most important step.
19
Always let her know you love her. If she knows you love her she will be more keen on the relationship.
You should try to make her laugh. Girls love a good sense of humor, after all.
Interpersonal relationships have five levels of communication:
1. Facts
2. Thoughts
3. Conversation
4. Conversation on personal emotion
5. Conversation about emotions for the other person
Take her out to dinner on days that she comes home and is in a good mood. On days she comes home grouchy, pick her up something yummy. On days she comes home humiliated, spend the night with her so she knows she has someone there for her.
Be self-assured. Walk, talk and act with confidence. Be a leader. Offer her the security you can provide.
Always show respect for other girls. This will show her how sweet and kind you are.
Make sure you are having fun. Honestly relax and enjoy yourself with her. There is nothing more painful to watch than some idiot trying to win over a girl if they are looking like they're constipated.
Be exciting. Always talk with vigor and energy, no matter what the topic. Never look down when talking to her; even if you are feeling sad always show excitement.
Respect her. Above all else. She is special and unique. Don't stand for even your closest friend insulting her, no matter what. After all, you love her, don't you? Good luck.
Don't interrupt. Show a respect for everything and everyone. Be a nice person; understanding and appreciative.
Don't be afraid to tell others how you feel. She will see that you aren't the least bit embarrassed.
Don't be petty. Don't complain about trivial things.
If you like her, you will wait for her. First, make sure that she is the one you want. Every ending is a new beginning and means fresh opportunity; BUT if you like her, you will wait for her no matter how long it takes for her to come to you.
Chivalry is not dead! Open doors. Do her dishes. Take out the trash when you come over. She will love it! Service is guaranteed to be one of the best ways to win her heart.
Be playful. Tease her a little, and when she teases you come right back at her with something funny. It's like two puppies wrestling. Very fun. However, girls tend to be sensitive, so make sure you don't hurt her feelings and let her have the last word every now and then.
If you're trying to win over a girl who you hardly know, then you obviously need to develop your relationship with her progressively . If you try to jump from being an acquaintance to being friends or a significant other then you'll come off as being a creepy stalker.
Advancing in conversational depth is tricky. It's awkward if you move too fast, so it's best to be patient. The best way to start moving forward is to spend time around her without necessarily making her your main focus. For example, seeing a movie with friends, studying together, or something else to do with the connections by which you came to know her. It may be a good idea to bring along a close friend as a 'wingman' to back you up depending on the situation.
Get close and talk to a relative of hers. Next time she hears about you, don't give them bad ideas about what you do, but let her only speak about the good things about you.
Take pride. Dress well and be clean. Don't litter.
Never interrupt her. Listen to what she has to say.
Once you have started and you are confident she likes you don't break the bond! You don't want to break her heart.
Sometimes, less direct methods of talking to her (like text messaging) can give off a more mysterious and intriguing impression, but nothing really compares to face-to-face communication. Get plenty of that in.
Treat her nicely. Don't hesitate to purchase any item that she needs. Ask her out whenever you both feel like having a good time outside the comfort zone.
Do not cheat on her. You may never win her heart back and you could emotionally scar her and prevent her from wanting to be in a relationship again.
Don't worry if you don't match up with all of these suggestions. If you feel similar feelings and you love her you will be okay.
Don't say things that sound too romantic when you're still a friend! Act like you are best friends or good friends.
Don't push it. No means no.
Be persistent and let nature take its course. Stay calm in all situations. If she gets a partner for example, it may not last if they're nothing like you. And most of all, stick by her. Time says a lot for someone who really cares.
never ever treat her badly
Never put all your eggs in one basket, unless ready for a devoted marriage or prolonged relationship. Understand you may get burned.
Don't seem over eager. Let her call and text you sometimes (though make sure you at least send her little texts too to show you think of her, but don't overdo it).
Don't agree with everything she says. Many girls like people who are different from them. This is why it is ALWAYS important to be yourself! Remember, opposites attract!
Never talk about her behind her back, because she is going to find out, girls are smart that way!
Never go to another girl straight after a relationship, if you have recently Broke up with a girl, don't get in a relationship too quickly with anyone afterward, this will show that girl that you never even loved her.
Steps
1
Don't come on too strong early. Let the relationship develop at its own pace. Coming on too strong early will almost certainly creep her out. Gradually get stronger feelings for her as you go on with the relationship together.
2
Be brave. Most girls like people with confidence, not an ego. Just walk up to her and start a simple conversation. She'll get the hint that you are interested in her.
3
Do not ever treat her as she were merely an item. No one likes to feel used and unloved.
4
Prove that you really like her. Show that you're not simply crushing or lusting for her. Ask her about herself, talk to her. Don't just move in for the kiss. Listen to her and look her in the eye.
5
Memorize her eye color. Do this by looking at them as much as you can when you're talking with her. It wouldn't be a bad idea to do this for every woman you meet.
6
Care for her. Ask her about her day. It's a simple way to show her that you are interested in what she does, and that you do care. When she starts to talk, you must give her your full attention. Look her in the eye. And most importantly, don't interrupt. Ask her questions about it because it will show her that you are listening. Offer to help her.
7
Make sure to be good friends with her friends. If her friends like you, you'll have a better chance of winning her over. After all, girls often turn to their friends for advice and for a second opinion. So it's best if her friends have a high opinion of you.
8
Make her feel like the most beautiful thing in the world. You can actually directly say that. Girls love to be complimented and to know that they are beautiful, but don't overdo it, particularly in a new friendship. Just saying something like, "You look really nice today" will make her happy. As long as you're sincere and mean it. If you are not, they will not trust your opinion on other things.
9
Make sure she feels safe with you. Most girls want to have someone they can trust and turn to when something goes wrong. And even when she is having a good day, let her know you're interested in how she's doing. If you know that she has plans after work or school, ask her how it went. If you let on that you like her, she'll eventually pick up on the hints. You don't even have to come out and say it. She'll probably pick up on it already.
10
Feel good and bad for her. If she had gotten a perfect score on her math test, be cheerful about it! If she was having a bad day, let her know that you feel her pain and that you want her to feel better. Attempt to make her feel better, if you can.
11
If you can make a girl laugh, you'll get further with her. But don't take advantage of this. Let her be your best friend first, then ease into things. A girl needs to know that she can trust you, and that you're not going to break her heart because you really do care about her. Girls love to laugh and will laugh at anything you say, even if its not funny.
12
Let her wear your jacket if she's cold. It makes an even bigger impression if you take it off of your back and give it to her to wear, but make sure it's clean and smells decent. In doing this, you show a girl that you care about her. She will feel safe and cared.
13
Have good hygiene. Women take pride in hygiene and if a man has good hygiene, it works really well on her. The opposite, bad hygiene, is usually an immediate deal-breaker. Believe it or not, fresh, clean-smelling hair is a really good thing. And, a fresh-smelling body is a must-have. A sweaty, smelly body means you're out.
14
Don't play games. It's a waste of time and gets a relationship headed in the wrong direction. If you try to start a relationship on something false (like you say you've had a multi-year relationship yet you've never even had a girlfriend), that is most likely where you will end up. Cute little flirting or teasing is okay, but never pretend to be someone you're not. If you think the girl is only in the relationship for one thing, and you're in it for another, don't just play along to keep her with you. Tell her what you're looking for and try and make her see what really counts.
15
Be sincere. Compliments, flirting, teasing, carefulness -- none of it matters unless you truly do care.
16
Love her for her quirks. Everyone has something they don't like about the person they love, but if you have too many big things on that list, you need the boot. You need to love her for the things that make her special, for her uniqueness. Tell her so. For example, "I love your freckles." A simple thing like that that you know she may be insecure about can really mean a lot to a girl.
17
If you are thinking something, tell her. If you can't decipher her signals or see where she is going with what she's doing/saying, tell her that. It's best just to get it out there, and see what she says. If you're unsure of what is going on, or how she's treating you, tell her that. If you get it out there right away, the problem can be fixed and the relationship can stay healthy. But don't shoot your mouth off. In these situations, you need to think twice and speak once.
18
Love who she is, inside and out. And show it. This is the most important step.
19
Always let her know you love her. If she knows you love her she will be more keen on the relationship.
You should try to make her laugh. Girls love a good sense of humor, after all.
Interpersonal relationships have five levels of communication:
1. Facts
2. Thoughts
3. Conversation
4. Conversation on personal emotion
5. Conversation about emotions for the other person
Take her out to dinner on days that she comes home and is in a good mood. On days she comes home grouchy, pick her up something yummy. On days she comes home humiliated, spend the night with her so she knows she has someone there for her.
Be self-assured. Walk, talk and act with confidence. Be a leader. Offer her the security you can provide.
Always show respect for other girls. This will show her how sweet and kind you are.
Make sure you are having fun. Honestly relax and enjoy yourself with her. There is nothing more painful to watch than some idiot trying to win over a girl if they are looking like they're constipated.
Be exciting. Always talk with vigor and energy, no matter what the topic. Never look down when talking to her; even if you are feeling sad always show excitement.
Respect her. Above all else. She is special and unique. Don't stand for even your closest friend insulting her, no matter what. After all, you love her, don't you? Good luck.
Don't interrupt. Show a respect for everything and everyone. Be a nice person; understanding and appreciative.
Don't be afraid to tell others how you feel. She will see that you aren't the least bit embarrassed.
Don't be petty. Don't complain about trivial things.
If you like her, you will wait for her. First, make sure that she is the one you want. Every ending is a new beginning and means fresh opportunity; BUT if you like her, you will wait for her no matter how long it takes for her to come to you.
Chivalry is not dead! Open doors. Do her dishes. Take out the trash when you come over. She will love it! Service is guaranteed to be one of the best ways to win her heart.
Be playful. Tease her a little, and when she teases you come right back at her with something funny. It's like two puppies wrestling. Very fun. However, girls tend to be sensitive, so make sure you don't hurt her feelings and let her have the last word every now and then.
If you're trying to win over a girl who you hardly know, then you obviously need to develop your relationship with her progressively . If you try to jump from being an acquaintance to being friends or a significant other then you'll come off as being a creepy stalker.
Advancing in conversational depth is tricky. It's awkward if you move too fast, so it's best to be patient. The best way to start moving forward is to spend time around her without necessarily making her your main focus. For example, seeing a movie with friends, studying together, or something else to do with the connections by which you came to know her. It may be a good idea to bring along a close friend as a 'wingman' to back you up depending on the situation.
Get close and talk to a relative of hers. Next time she hears about you, don't give them bad ideas about what you do, but let her only speak about the good things about you.
Take pride. Dress well and be clean. Don't litter.
Never interrupt her. Listen to what she has to say.
Once you have started and you are confident she likes you don't break the bond! You don't want to break her heart.
Sometimes, less direct methods of talking to her (like text messaging) can give off a more mysterious and intriguing impression, but nothing really compares to face-to-face communication. Get plenty of that in.
Treat her nicely. Don't hesitate to purchase any item that she needs. Ask her out whenever you both feel like having a good time outside the comfort zone.
Do not cheat on her. You may never win her heart back and you could emotionally scar her and prevent her from wanting to be in a relationship again.
Don't worry if you don't match up with all of these suggestions. If you feel similar feelings and you love her you will be okay.
Don't say things that sound too romantic when you're still a friend! Act like you are best friends or good friends.
Don't push it. No means no.
Be persistent and let nature take its course. Stay calm in all situations. If she gets a partner for example, it may not last if they're nothing like you. And most of all, stick by her. Time says a lot for someone who really cares.
never ever treat her badly
Never put all your eggs in one basket, unless ready for a devoted marriage or prolonged relationship. Understand you may get burned.
Don't seem over eager. Let her call and text you sometimes (though make sure you at least send her little texts too to show you think of her, but don't overdo it).
Don't agree with everything she says. Many girls like people who are different from them. This is why it is ALWAYS important to be yourself! Remember, opposites attract!
Never talk about her behind her back, because she is going to find out, girls are smart that way!
Never go to another girl straight after a relationship, if you have recently Broke up with a girl, don't get in a relationship too quickly with anyone afterward, this will show that girl that you never even loved her.